Do you have a right to sexual labels?

The hashtag “Metoo” campaign is now a long-lost memory hidden amongst the online world and  the press have stopped talking about it-which means it is no longer trendy. The worldwide campaign of standing up for women’s rights has left a sour taste amongst many men and rightly so as many people place all men under this label.

Could it be that men have been blaming women since the day of Eve? Even now many are blaming women for all of life’s disasters-look at Brexit for instance-people assume Theresa May is entirely to blame, which is far from the truth. Many men compare her to Margaret Thatcher who many say led the once bulldog bred Britain into poverty and that women can not rule the world-or is it that many just don’t understand the equality rules between men and women.

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The “Metoo” campaign was to fight out sexual abuse, not to create it. Fast forward to 2019 where sex is openly spoken about yet misinterpretated through television and media to make people think of it as a dirty word if you actually do it as a source of income. Prostitution dates back to when life began and most people are actually trading their bodies for some return in every sense of life. Therefore, have women created the problem of others calling us bitches, whores and slut’s?  If you are in a relationship you can withhold sex from a man-this makes you a bitch, if you work in the sex trade as business then you are called a whore, and if you enjoy sex and make it part of your life freely then your classed as a slut. Therefore there is no escape to being sexually labelled by both sexes.

Channel Four recently aired a production called “Mums make Porn” which I watched with dread not only because  they glamorised the porn industry by using a high-end production studio owned by “Erika Lust” which is not the true reflection of the porn industry these days, they also used inexperienced parents who know nothing about making porn making the true professionals be labeled as dirty and outcast, especially for the female performers.  Do people not realize that sex is completely natural and that some people are happy using their bodies as their work and pride themselves of it. Showing parents with no knowledge of pornography was going to cause online abuse for many performers and also to its viewers who had an opinion. Are people bad for watching porn-no, is the porn industry responsible for downloading it into your child’s sight, no. The only people responsible for bringing pornography into anyones house is the person providing the source to view the material, i.e laptops,computers and mobile phones. In my 20 years of covering the sex industry I do not know of one performer who has made a pornographic movie aimed at a child or for childrens viewing- it is called Adult entertainment for this very reason.

The point is we all are entitled to be who we choose to be and this counts in sexuality, gender, professional choices and every aspect of our lives. What others think of us is not of our concern-standing up for who we are is. If you are a sex worker it is your given right to do as you please, its your body and your decisions.

If you are the one sat at home on your computer shaming people online for their choices by leaving social media degrading comments then shame on you for being such a coward and a two faced masterbater -yes, don’t think for one minute you were forced to see a women having sex on film- it was your choice to go and abuse someone so own it. Cyberstalking is the use of the Internet or other electronic means to stalk or harass an individual, group, or organization. It may include false accusations, defamation, slander and libel. It may also include monitoring, identity theft, threats, vandalism, solicitation for sex, or gathering information that may be used to threaten, embarrass or harass. Cyberstalking is a criminal offense.As a counsellor to sex workers and a mediator between sexual victims and the Met police I can happily say that if you are the one leaving sexual labelling comments of Whore, Slut or Bitch on anyone’s timeline via social media then you could be contributing to pushing them towards self loathing and addictions. This is the same for production companies who offer no support and no pay to performers to take part in their productions for their own gain which is classed as slavery.

Do you have a right to sexually label someone?

Porn Shutdown in whole of Europe after Nacho Vidal confirmed HIV positive

Nacho Vidal has today been confirmed as HIV. The whole of Europe is now on shut down for a month from filming X rated movies. This is protocol when any actor is confirmed HIV well first, second and third generation actors are tested for the disease. The industry is in shock around the world as the world’s top actor “Nacho” was confirmed positive in Barcelona.

First generation actresses on the list are Denise Martin, Cady Doll, Ginenra, Talia Mint, Linda del sol, Gina Ferocuious, Monica Mavi, Rhona Stops.

Nacho has only replied to one reporter from the Spanish press saying “I don’t know where you’ve got the info but it’s in very bad taste. I won’t say anything thanks”.

Industry insiders are on social media spreading the news well Nacho confirms he will release a statement in the coming hours. Europe at present is free from having to use condoms, California in the US is the only place where the law is condom only productions.

Test for HIV on performers currently takes a month and sometimes longer to show up on tests. During this time nervous performers will be held on standstill from performing any X rated movies.

Some speculate that he has had HIV for some time with rumours stating he has known he is HIV positive since 2004 when Porn Wiki Leaks in 2013 released a statement saying “Nacho is not only a closet homosexual but also likes to produce and use only HIV positive men to infect women in the industry, which was the reason for an industry shut down in 2004 which caused 5 people to get the virus. This suggested Nacho should be banned from the USA for good.

In 2018 he was nominated by AVN for Best Foreign sex scene production and in 2013 was given the award of best boy/girl seen. Nacho first got into the industry in 1998 and soon built a reputation as a windman both in front and behind the camera. Only last year he was working on a TV series called Tushy,  First Time Auditions and Evil Angel.

Top USA porn star and producer partner charged on sex charges to minors.

Today top USA industry leaders AVN released a statement Adult film star Mercedes Carrera and her producer boyfriend Daemon Cins pleaded not guilty Wednesday to eight counts of sexually abusing a child under 10. The defendants—whose legal names are Melinda Smith, 35, and Jason Whitney, 43—allegedly abused an unidentified female minor “several times” over four months. “The minor reported it to her family, and the family reported it to us,” San Bernardino County Sheriff’s Detective Donald Patton said. “It’s very sickening that someone would do something like that to a child under the age of 10 years old.” Officers found drugs, guns, and a makeshift studio in their bedroom so they could film and record “various pornographic videos or web shows,” police said. Patton didn’t say how Smith and Whitney first targeted the girl, but said police “suspect there may be other victims.

If any industry performers feel they are effected by this or know more information please contact Alana Evans at APAG union Los Angeles, or myself so we can pass on more information.

Why do people sleep with the dead?

Read my expert opinion in the sun newspaper today on why necrophilia is more common than you think.
Sex expert Lianne Young of House of Ardent tells The Sun Online: “The reason why he may have done this is to have a sense of no fear, and he could have acted on his sexual choices with more of a sense of bravado.”

Sexual attraction to corpses doesn’t always involve real dead bodies, Lianne explains.

Some people get their kicks by asking partners to “wear white make up and play dead” during sex sessions.

“It is a public taboo due to the moral aspect of it,” she says.

“But behind closed doors there are people out there who choose to play out their fantasies of people who aren’t able to talk back.

To read the full story please click on the below link.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/8008101/sick-people-sex-corpses-necrophilia/

HONOUR Announce top kink of UK

Honour is a well established adult brand and has been trading for 30 years. They focus on high quality products for all. They’re experienced in dealing with all sorts of kinks and provide great customer service. Bravo to Honour for making so many people across the country happy!

Read the full article today in The Sun with a map covering your area.

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/7857147/britains-kinkiest-towns-and-cities/