Why we all need sexual contracts

Convictions of sexual abuse have taken over the media in recent years, Max Clifford, Mr.Weinstein, Bill Cosby, Woody Allen, R.kelly and even John Travolta when in 2009 he paid hush money to a cruise ship worker who claimed the actor exposed himself during a massage. Brittany Spears was also accused of sexual harassment in 2012 by her former bodyguard when he said she had invited him … Continue reading Why we all need sexual contracts

How to have confident sophisticated sex.

  I bet you’re thinking, “Great-another article about how candlelight and a soppy playlist will help you have the most amazing sweet sex ever, well it’s not. But hold on. If you think sophisticated sex is beyond cheesy, you’re probably have the wrong impression-and you could be denying yourself some super hot sex!  Hot sex does not need to involve rose petals or frilly lingerie, … Continue reading How to have confident sophisticated sex.

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Oh dont be shy.. How to have sex talk with the oppposite sex

Do you know how to have an Orgasm? Men and women are built very differently and contain different understanding of speech and actions. Maybe you think your body is broken and does not cum, or maybe you really don’t know how to have an orgasm. The main reason people don’t seek help with understanding orgasms is because they are too embarrassed to talk about it. Many … Continue reading Oh dont be shy.. How to have sex talk with the oppposite sex

The difference between Arousal and Desire

There is a very important difference between the two. Arousal is physiological, it goes on in the body. Arousal happens when nipples get erect, the penis starts twitching, then it becomes fully erect, the vagina starts pulsing and becoming moist and wet. Arousal also happens when you get flushed in the face and when your fingers start to explore.  This makes Arousal a physical process. Desire … Continue reading The difference between Arousal and Desire

Why you should never use the word foreplay!

Many people are under the assumption that sex begins with foreplay, but in all honesty I can’t stand the word, simply because using the word foreplay implies there’s going to be intercourse, and it may not. So what is foreplay and what does it contain?  This is a question I am asked often and my usual answer is well what do you think sex is? … Continue reading Why you should never use the word foreplay!

The ageing penis and what women need to know.

The penis is a funny creature, almost going shy as it ages. For some women, it causes frustration when sex starts with a rock solid erection, and then it slowly starts softening leaving us high and dry and full of anxiety. Many women start asking themselves, Am I good enough? Am I still attractive? Why are they no longer able to keep an erection with … Continue reading The ageing penis and what women need to know.