Always the fantasy and never the ideal partner?

Is this you? Have you ever wondered why love just does not happen for you, or you feel its one-sided and once the other person has had their good time with you they disappear. As children we form a fantasy of what real love looks like, the fairytale and happy ever after. We paint pretty pictures in our minds based on fantasy of how life … Continue reading Always the fantasy and never the ideal partner?

Top behaviors that ruin relationships and how you can mend them.

It’s surprisingly easy to ruin a perfect relationship. You may not be aware that you are even doing it at the time, you may think that you’re doing everything right to keep your relationship healthy and strong and when your partner tells you it’s not working your more than surprised. The problem is that sometimes what helps a relationship is also what ends up killing … Continue reading Top behaviors that ruin relationships and how you can mend them.

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Oh dont be shy.. How to have sex talk with the oppposite sex

Do you know how to have an Orgasm? Men and women are built very differently and contain different understanding of speech and actions. Maybe you think your body is broken and does not cum, or maybe you really don’t know how to have an orgasm. The main reason people don’t seek help with understanding orgasms is because they are too embarrassed to talk about it. Many … Continue reading Oh dont be shy.. How to have sex talk with the oppposite sex

The difference between Arousal and Desire

There is a very important difference between the two. Arousal is physiological, it goes on in the body. Arousal happens when nipples get erect, the penis starts twitching, then it becomes fully erect, the vagina starts pulsing and becoming moist and wet. Arousal also happens when you get flushed in the face and when your fingers start to explore.  This makes Arousal a physical process. Desire … Continue reading The difference between Arousal and Desire

Why you should never use the word foreplay!

Many people are under the assumption that sex begins with foreplay, but in all honesty I can’t stand the word, simply because using the word foreplay implies there’s going to be intercourse, and it may not. So what is foreplay and what does it contain?  This is a question I am asked often and my usual answer is well what do you think sex is? … Continue reading Why you should never use the word foreplay!