The real victims of sex abuse

My loyal readers all know I am not afraid to tackle contentious issues. So buckle up – here we go again! My proposition is that the media’s over-emphasis of the overpaid celebrities who are leading the “#me too” campaign ignores the real victims of sexual harassment and abuse – those who are genuinely in need of protection. Don’t get me wrong – I am not … Continue reading The real victims of sex abuse

The Porn Identity

 ” I  am a movie star, I have starred in over 100 blue movies before my retirement as a performer in 2001. Sure there are some similarities in my life style and that of Matt Damons character in “The Bourne Identity”.  I have suffered many episodes of drunken amnesia and memory loss, I must also admit to having slept with a few government bodies in my time… … Continue reading The Porn Identity

Oops you had drunken sex!

If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times: “I will never do it again, I promise”. Usually, my oath was directed to the good lord above while throwing up after an evening’s over-indulgence in – you guessed it – alcohol and sex. And often, after a short period of recovery, I would normally move to the common self-justification, you know, along the lines of: “I have … Continue reading Oops you had drunken sex!

The gender menu

  Gender is such an important issue, particularly in today’s society. But don’t just take my word for it. Clearly, some agree with me. Former South African President, Nobel Peace Prize winner and philanthropist,  Nelson Mandela once said: “We pledge ourselves to liberate all our people from the continuing bondage of poverty, deprivation, suffering, gender and other discrimination.” Yes, I’m clearly in good company on this … Continue reading The gender menu

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Disastrous dates

Dating is hard – bloody hard – some dates are even disastrous – here are some of my own…..  Of course, there is plenty of pressure even before we face the difficulty that is carrying on one half of a straight conversation with a new man/woman. First, we need to decide who our date will be; and then orchestrate the why, where and when the date … Continue reading Disastrous dates