Why you need to take a break from your relationship

We have all had those moments when we have said to ourselves our partner is driving us crazy, so why do we not take a break? Taking a break from your relationship has a bad reputation, yet it could save your relationship in the long run. The first thing most people think when their partner asks for a break is that their significant other does … Continue reading Why you need to take a break from your relationship

My Detention Centre Journey

It’s pouring with rain outside, the palm trees are blowing furiously  well the sea wall takes bashing from the 100 mph waves. No one would believe I am on the luxury island of Bali, Indonesia. Trust me I can’t believe it myself. Right this minute I should be sat in a classroom in Perth, Western Australia studying my last course which will give me freedom … Continue reading My Detention Centre Journey

Did Santa not deliver all you wanted again- Where is your perfect partner?

How many times have you heard people say “I just want to find my perfect partner”, especially now its Christmas time, oh-and New year’s promises. What is perfect? That all depends what you are after –Even if we look at just one element – sex of course – what if your partner actually was perfect – wouldn’t this become boring – what, no rows and … Continue reading Did Santa not deliver all you wanted again- Where is your perfect partner?

Always the fantasy and never the ideal partner?

Is this you? Have you ever wondered why love just does not happen for you, or you feel its one-sided and once the other person has had their good time with you they disappear. As children we form a fantasy of what real love looks like, the fairytale and happy ever after. We paint pretty pictures in our minds based on fantasy of how life … Continue reading Always the fantasy and never the ideal partner?

The key to happiness with a dirty past.

Indeed, there is a strong educational principle that goes broadly along the lines that “If you haven’t made a mistake, then you haven’t been trying!” In light of the fact that we all make mistakes, isn’t it curious that people are very quick to judge. And they often do so without first considering whether they are as good as Mother Theresa or whether their life is as pure as … Continue reading The key to happiness with a dirty past.

Sex, knowledge, and Choclate cake!

What kind of contraceptive do you use for intercourse? Withdraw method, contraceptive pill, diaphragm, condoms, Injection? Whatever it is it implies your having sex. This, or you use it as a hormone balance so you can have sex, right?  On my travels around the world, you would be amazed how many people from all corners are still scared to talk openly about contraceptive methods. It … Continue reading Sex, knowledge, and Choclate cake!

What NOT to text your partner

Some people don’t realise that while texting may be a quick and convenient way to communicate, it can’t express the emotional tone of your voice. And we all know that many things, text being the main one, can be read the wrong way. We all know not to write certain text and that picking up the phone is much better for any relationship. However, some still … Continue reading What NOT to text your partner